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Should I lose Weight Before My Session?

We are back this week answering another common question we get. Should I lose weight for my boudoir session? Now, this may feel a little sticky for some women… this may even feel a little taboo, so we are going to dive in.

The short answer is no. However, we do want to dive a little deeper into this question!

As a woman, you know that weight can be a really fickle thing. You can hop on the scale one morning down a few pounds, and by the end of the day, you’ll gain 5 lbs. However, we know that so many variables go into your weight.

However, at the end of the day, we stand for healthy. A healthy body, mind, and soul are way more important than any number on a scale.

Losing weight isn’t bad. Gaining weight isn’t bad. At the end of the day, we don’t want you to take drastic measures to fit a certain mold. We don’t want you to starve yourself before you come in for your session. Boudoir sessions are taxing, and not eating beforehand won’t serve you.

We put you in challenging posing with our guidance of course, but we want you to feel strong when you come in, not weak, tired, or hangry because you haven’t been fueling your body properly.

We do believe that you are worthy of a boudoir session no matter what your ideal weight is. We believe that you are worthy of a boudoir session whether you are training for a bodybuilder competition, or if you are postpartum and finding yourself again.

Bottom line is, you are worthy. You don’t need to lose weight to be worthy of a boudoir session with us. You are beautiful. Your body is beautiful, and we want to welcome you with open arms as you are.

Looking for a few reasons to have a boudoir session with us?

We’ve got a few.

  • A gift to yourself just because
  • Before having children
  • After childbirth
  • A monumental birthday (30, 40, 50, 60, 70, and even 80!!)
  • Just because you simply need a boost
  • Maternity boudoir
  • For your wedding or anniversary
  • To show off a new tattoo
  • As a gift to someone else (birthday, anniversary, holiday)
  • So that you can finally see why everyone else keeps telling you that you are beautiful
  • For your divorce
  • Something amazing to look back on when you’re older

At the end of the day… It isn’t about if you lose weight.

We want you to love yourself just the way you are, and a lot of women don’t. We want you to find a healthy balance for yourself. That’s what we try to change here at Modern Muse Studio – we believe in the healthiest version of you. You may be feeling down about the way you look or maybe you can’t lose those few extra pounds (we’ve been there, too). The most important thing is to love yourself now, and always. No matter what. We guarantee you will fall in love with yourself even more after your session with us.

Ready to take the next steps? We would love to chat with you about your own boudoir experience.

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